I totally understand your frustrations. I have an idea for you! Instead of bathing your children in the morning - how about in the evening right after dinner. You and your husband can do this together - or he could give baths while you study or work??? You could get yourself-breakfast, etc ready in the day while kids are sleeping. And...do you have a play pen or a way to block off an area where the kids can play together while you are working close by? Then when it is time - you can do lunch - time for naps (you can work-study)while they are sleeping! Merely suggestions. Good Luck!