Truly I can't believe we still have to put people down in this society. Just because you don't like the way someone looks you don't have to say it!! Didn't anyone ever tell you if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all. Personal bashing is not where we need to be in this world, tollerance is what we have all been preaching to our children and friends etc. don't you think we should practice what we preach. If Valarie B. feels like she should lose weight and wants it for herself then good for her and her head is fine. Just because you are thin and have weight to gain how would you feel (or) have you felt when people criticize(not sure if I spelled that right)you. Think about what you say first, then think about how it would make you feel, then say it if you think you should. I have made my mistakes in the past but I am trying to learn from mine!!!