Q&A: I've Been Hanging Out With This Guy For a Month But We Haven’t Been Out On a Date—Is He Hiding Me?

Comedian, actress and author Ali Wentworth encourages an audience member to question the motives of her new boyfriend, based on the fact that they’ve never actually been out on a real date together. Here’s her question and Ali’s tough-love answer:

Q: “Okay, so I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month. I think it’s going pretty well, the only thing is we’ve never actually been out. He buys dinner, he pays for it, I pick it up and I bring it over and we hang out. But my question is, am I his personal delivery service? Is he interested in me, or is he hiding me? Or does he just not want to pay the delivery guy?” – Abby

A: “I actually would be totally offended. I don’t think it’s a delivery thing. He’s keeping you a secret [Rach agrees!]… I think he’s got something else on the side and he doesn’t want to see her with you. So break up with him right now!” – Ali

Watch Ali tell it like it is in the video above.